Virginia Divorce: Property Settlement Agreements

If you or your spouse is considering a divorce, there are some steps that can be taken now to protect both of your assets and your children. A Property Settlement Agreement is a written document which outlines how marital debt, marital property, and child custody will be addressed while the divorce is pending. This document is vital to have as it can save substantial legal fees from having the court make these decisions. However, there are also dangers to these documents.

What do you need to be aware of when entering into a Property Settlement Agreement?

It is a binding contract.

Virginia law is very clear on this matter, a Property Settlement Agreement is a binding contract. Therefore, you have to be very careful in reviewing the terms of the agreement before signing it. These documents may be drafted by a lawyer, and may include provisions that could prove harmful to you down the line. If there are such provisions in the contract, a court will be reluctant to change the provisions of the contract.

A common example of a dangerous provision relates to spousal support. Virginia law allows a Property Settlement Agreement to state that the amount of support may not be modified. That means, in the event that you lose your job and are obligated to pay support, you will not be able to reduce that amount without a prohibitively expensive court battle.

It requires certain provisions to be valid.

Virginia law requires that a Property Settlement Agreement contain specific provisions to be considered valid. Failure to include these provisions may result in the document being declared invalid by a court of law in the future. If you fail to consult with a lawyer during the drafting process, all of your efforts may prove to have been in vain.

It needs to be exhaustive.

Finally, a Property Settlement Agreement needs to address every aspect of your marital property. It needs to address debt, support, custody, visitation, etc. Failure to include a portion of the marital estate into the document may result in bad consequences such as a contested divorce case or the loss of certain retirement assets. It may even make qualifying for Medicaid more difficult.

Why you need a lawyer.

A lawyer is essential in creating a Property Settlement Agreement. For the reasons stated above, Virginia Law is strict about what can or cannot be included in the document. Furthermore, there may be words in the document that can be harmful to you. Therefore, if you are considering a Property Settlement Agreement, consult a lawyer for review prior to signing.

Virginia Divorce: Dating During Divorce Proceedings

A common question I get in relation to divorce is whether you can date while your divorce proceedings are pending. The term people use is “legal separation,” and they want to know what that means. There are some states in the United States that allow for legal separation and for dating while your divorce is pending? Is Virginia one of those? No.

So how do you protect yourself while your divorce is pending?

How can dating impact your divorce?

As discussed above, there is no such thing as “legal separation” in Virginia. Until you are formally divorced by a court order, Virginia law still considers you to be married. Virginia law also has adultery as a grounds of divorce. If you date while your divorce is still pending, and the other side does not, that fact can be used against you in a number of different ways.

The first is property distribution. Virginia is an equitable distribution state. This means that marital assets and debt are divided based on what is “fair.” The court will take into consideration fault based grounds of divorce when deciding what is fair for property distribution purposes. If one of the parties is engaging in adultery, that can be used to obtain more assets.

The second effect is child custody. Courts in Virginia are reluctant to grant primary custody to a parent who is dating and has that person around the kids. Virginia law has restrictions on such “cohabitation,” and will generally favor the parent who is not dating. Therefore, dating while a divorce is pending can impact custody.

Finally, adultery is still an antiquated crime in Virginia. Dating during the divorce proceedings, while unlikely, may result in criminal proceedings.

How to protect yourself?

There are different types of divorce in Virginia, and one of those types may be able to allow you to start dating. Whether you qualify for this type of divorce will largely depend on the facts of your case. Most attorneys will encourage you to get a separation agreement executed with your ex before dating, and refrain from dating while the divorce is pending.

Speak to a lawyer if you are considering dating during your divorce proceedings. Your lawyer can let you know what your rights are and help prevent an unfair outcome.

Virginia Divorce: Fault or No Fault Grounds

Virginia law requires you to satisfy one of several different grounds for divorce before you can file. These grounds can be split into two separate categories; fault based grounds of divorce and non-fault based grounds of divorce. Each grounds for divorce carries with it a separate waiting requirement and requires you to prove different things. What do you need to do in order to qualify for divorce in Virginia, and what do you need to know about these grounds of divorce?

Fault Based Grounds of Divorce

The first, and largest, category of divorce grounds is fault based grounds of divorce. Virginia law allows you to file for a divorce if one of the following issues are present; adultery, physical abuse, mental abuse, and desertion. Virginia law also requires that you provide clear proof that one of these grounds have occurred.

For example, with adultery, you must not only prove the identity of the other party, but you must also prove the date and location that the alleged adultery occurred. These burdens of proof make it difficult to pursue a fault based grounds of divorce in Virginia.

However, successfully pursuing a fault based grounds of divorce can impact how the court will handle property distribution and alimony. The more “at fault” the court views one of the parties, the more harshly they will be treated by the court. For example, committing adultery is generally a bar to alimony in Virginia.

No Fault Grounds of Divorce

This is a much smaller category of grounds for divorce. This category applies if you have been living separate and apart from your spouse for a period of time; either six (6) months or one (1) year depending on the facts of your case.

The benefit of a no fault based grounds of divorce is that you only required to establish the date of separation and that the parties have lived separate and apart for the required period of time. You must also show that the you and your spouse have divided all the debt and assets, and that the court is only required to finalize the divorce.

Why You Need a Lawyer for Divorce

A lawyer is essential in understanding the various things you have to prove in order to establish any given grounds of divorce. Furthermore, a lawyer can help you prepare your case to maximize your chances of success and reduce the delay of filing for divorce. Seek out a lawyer if you intend to file for divorce.

Virginia Divorce: What is Pendente Lite Relief?

Divorce is an expensive and emotional process. When one spouse files for divorce, it may result in animosity and, in some instances, danger. Virginia law allows you to request that the court enter an order requiring your spouse to do certain things while the divorce proceedings are pending. Common examples of this type of relief include sole possession of the marital home, no derogatory language, a no contact order, or preliminary support.

So what is pendente lite relief and how does it work?

When to File for Pendente Lite Relief

A request for pendente lite relief can only be filed after a suit for divorce, support or custody has been filed with the appropriate court and the other party has been served with the lawsuit. You cannot file for pendente lite relief prior to your spouse receiving service of process. Service of process is typically accomplished by having the local sheriff deliver a copy of the Complaint and Summons to your spouse.

What Can You Ask For?

Virginia law gives you a wide array of things you can ask for with pendente lite relief. If you cannot afford to hire a lawyer because your spouse has denied you access to the bank accounts, a pendente lite order may require your spouse to open access to the bank accounts. If your spouse is abusive and you cannot afford to find a new place, the court has the power to require your spouse to move out of the marital home and grant you sole, exclusive use and possession. The court also has the power to enter a preliminary order deciding issues of custody and visitation.

How Long Does Pendente Lite Relief Last?

It generally depends on the court you are in. A pendente lite order is designed to protect the parties until the case has been fully resolved. However, the court has discretion to limit the length of any particular request or to modify its order during the pendency of the lawsuit.

Why You Need a Lawyer

A request for pendente lite relief requires a hearing on the merits of your case. A mini-trial will need to be held, witnesses must be produced, and the reasons for your requested relief must be provided to the court. Evidence and hearings are the most difficult part of the legal process, and a lawyer can help insure that you have provided the court with the appropriate types of evidence and documentation. Failure to hire a lawyer may result in your requests being denied or your evidence not being heard. Hire a lawyer to increase your chances of success.

Spousal Support: How to modify.

Virginia law allows you to modify a spousal support order if there has been a “material change in circumstances.” Common examples of times when it would be appropriate to request a modification of spousal support include getting laid off, obtaining a new job, or suffering from a workplace injury that makes you unable to work.

So how often will a court modify a spousal support order, and what do you need to know before you file?

What is a material change in circumstances?

The first thing that you must prove before the court will grant you a modification of your spousal support is that there has been a material change in circumstances. This is a legal term of art that means that finances or living arrangements have changed such that it would be fair to modify the spousal support order.

With respect to changing finances, the most typical times a court will modify your spousal support order is if either party changes their employment situation. A change in employment can be caused by any number of things. However, the change cannot be due to an intentional decision by the employee to take reduced hours or reduced pay. If you intentionally reduce your pay, the court will assume you are still making the same amount of money.

With respect to a change in living arrangements, most court orders only require you to provide spousal support so long as the other party is not living “in a relationship analogous to marriage.” Meaning, if the other party moves in with a new significant other who is taking on the bills or the other party gets remarried, that may also be grounds to amend the spousal support.

How to prepare before filing for a modification of spousal support.

The court will require you to produce a number of documents when you ask for a modification of spousal support. You must prove the material change in circumstances that are the basis for your request. Common examples of documents you need to obtain include three (3) months worth of pay stubs, tax returns, or letters from your doctor showing a disability. Either way, you need documentation proving your case.

Furthermore, it may be a good idea to attempt to negotiate with the other party. After time has passed and temporatures have cooled, the other side may be willing to revisit spousal support. Coming to an agreement may save significant costs.

Why you need a lawyer.

Spousal support modification is complicated in Virginia. At the very least, you need to know how to obtain the documentation you need to prove your case. Additionally, you may need to prove the income or living arrangements of the other party. A lawyer can assist by preparing your case for presentation to the court or negotiating with the other party. If you are considering a change in spousal support, seek out a lawyer.